MCC Resource Kit - LGBT Pride Celebrations
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Pride Week 4
Idea/Action
List for Pridetide
Sample News
Release: Social Justice Award
Small
Group Resources Available
P R I D E T I D E... an opportunity to celebrate in the lives of our churches and members our pride in being exactly who God created each of us to be: gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered and heterosexual. It is a liturgical season to rejoice in our sexuality and spirituality as divine gifts, connected to one another. In this season of Pride parades and festivals, we encourage you to make sacred this time in your church and in your life. Here are some resources for your congregation. Pride Week 1
"If we want to build a movement that is
transformational, we will model honesty, we will model
openness and we will take the risks that challenge
conventional thinking. We will act with integrity in our
personal relationships and in our relationships with our
colleagues. We will seek out and lift up every voice,
challenged by what we hear but not afraid. We will
listen to every voice.
"The true test of democracy is how it
embraces those who look, act, and think differently, not
just those who are the same. This is the world we dream
of - a more compassionate society. One that values the
worth and dignity of all people. . .
"We can't subscribe to the "I'll get
mine now and we'll add you later" mode of politics. As a
woman, as a lesbian, as a Jew, I can't be a woman on
Thursday, a lesbian on Friday, and a Jew on Saturday.
Perhaps it is an old fashioned notion, but I believe
that to move forward, each of us must move forward
together.
"But I challenge you to go further. I
challenge each of you to break through your world to a
new place, to challenge your assumptions, to develop new
relationships, to act as though the world that you
create for yourself and your community is the model that
each of us should live by. I challenge you to tear down
your walls, to tear down your stereotypes, and to lead."
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Pride Week 2
Call to Worship
One:
Sing praises to our God, who has done wondrous things!
Many: We thank God
for the gift of bisexual people, who teach us that love
is boundless.
One: Sing praises to our God, who has
done wondrous things!
Many: We thank God
for the gift of transgendered people, who teach us the
beauty of change and courage.
One: Sing praises to our God, who has
done wondrous things!
Many: We thank God
for the gift of straight people, who teach us to seek
community beyond the ordinary and accepted.
One: Sing praises to our God, who has
done wondrous things!
Many: We thank God
for the gift of lesbians, who teach us to love that
which is like ourselves and to celebrate the goodness
within.
One: Sing praises to our God, who has
done wondrous things!
Many: We thank God
for the gift of gay men, who teach us to look for love
beyond the expected and to live beyond the everyday.
One: Sing praises to our God, who
created us, redeemed us and sustains us. Thanks be to
God!
Scriptures
Isaiah 54: 1-3, 10, 14
Matthew 19: 11-12
Contemporary Voice
Riki Ann Wilchins,
founder of Transsexual Menace and Executive Director of
GenderPAC, speaking at a transsexual speak-out at New
York's Lesbian & Gay Community Center, held in honor of
the 40th anniversary of Christine Jorgenson's sex-change
surgery:
". . . let me
tell you about one transsexual. After ten years of
hiding and passing and sucking up to non-transsexual
women, strung out and totally desperate, she started a
transsexual group. She started talking with them and
hanging out with them and being seen with them, although
at first she hated it. She started wearing buttons and
coming out at every appropriate and inappropriate
moment, just as if her life, that life God had given
her, why, it was just as normal and natural as anyone
else's, which of course, it was. And she learned that
although she might hate herself, she could not hate the
50 or 100 or 150 other transsexuals she met, and whose
stories she heard, whose tears of frustration and rage
she saw, whose everyday, one day at a time, courage to
survive she witnessed. And she understood, at last, the
redemptive power of community, and how it can only be
stifled by self-hate and silence. And community, my
friends and transsexual kin, is what we build here
today, by coming together to claim our own, our history,
and our Christine; Christine who, standing all alone in
God's own light in a way none of us have had to since,
made all of this and all of us possible."
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Pride Week 3
Call to Worship
One: From the east and
the west, the north and the south,
Many:
We gather in the presence of the Holy One.
One: Bringing our joy and sorrow, with
comfort and with trepidation,
Many: We come
together in this place.
One: To those who love us and those
who fear and despise us,
Many: We proclaim the
power of God working in our lives.
One: Once we were not a people,
Many: Now we are a
people of God.
Scriptures
Isaiah 56:1-7
Mark 3:31-35
Contemporary Voice
Eddie Martinez, Community
Outreach Director at The Wall-- Las Memorias Project,
quoted in QV magazine, April 1998:
"Empowerment has to do with yourself. You have to really love and believe in yourself and let your inner beauty come out in order for you to be what you want to be. Too many people just don't have faith in themselves, and they are always negative. Because of that negativity, they don't think they can be what they want to be. Say, for example, someone wants to be an artist-- he may feel like his opinions aren't that good, that he can't draw, or that he doesn't have the power to become an artist. You've got to be confident in what you do. Of course, you can be scared and have some fears, but you've got to learn to overcome those fears..."
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Pride Week 4
Call to Worship
One:
For all who have taken the risk of loving another,
Many: We thank you, O God of Courage.
One: For all who integrate their
sexuality and spirituality,
Many: We praise you,
O God of Life.
One: For all who have colored outside
the lines that society has placed around us,
Many: We rejoice with
you, O God of Creativity.
One: For all of who have lived true to
the inner voice within,
Many: We celebrate
with you, O God of Integrity.
One: For all of who proclaim their
pride at who you created them to be,
Many: We dance with
you, O God of Joy.
One: For all that you are in our
lives, and all the gifts that you have given us, and
most especially, for the unique creation that is each
one of us,
Many: We honor you, O
God of All.
Scriptures
Ruth 1: 15-18
1 Samuel 18: 1-5 Luke 7: 1-10
Contemporary Voice
The following except from
the 1998 MCC Board of Elders Pastoral Letter reminds us
of the ways God has used our connectedness and our unity
in diversity to become "co-creators with God."
"To be a part of the MCC is to share in the strength and wonder of one of the most powerful and liberating movements in Christian history. As the people of God gathered together in this movement we are co-creators with God of a new thing God is doing. We are part of a movement for which people have died, for which others will die and to which many more are devoting their lives. Together, we find the increased strength and support that comes through identity and cohesion with a larger movement bringing about positive change in the world. We gain strength in numbers, and strength from our unity in diversity. The whole is more than the sum of its parts... As people of the covenant we recount with joy the ways in which God has acted, reflect on our faithfulness to God's call and rededicate ourselves to the vision God has given us."
1. Use your Pride Celebrations to network with other groups and leaders.
Invite all of the LGBT groups in your area to attend your Pride Services. Send written invitations.
Recognize these groups during services and/or invite group representatives to bring greetings to your
congregation.
Present
them with
certificates of recognition for the work they do in your
community.
2. Invite city and state or provincial
government officials
-- elected and appointed -- to attend your Pride
Services. Send written invitations letting them know
they will find a warm welcome with your congregation.
3. Hold an outdoor worship service.
Give your neighbors
and your community
an opportunity to see your congregation at worship. You
might wish to invite the local media
to visit. This could be an excellent way to share your
ministry with the larger community.
4. Establish a "Justice Award"
or a
"Community Achievement Award."
Present these awards
during your services to community leaders who have
helped to make a difference. Make this
an annual recognition.
Send news
releases announcing your recipients and the reason
for the awards.
5. Have the children in your church
draw pictures of their families
and make a
display
at the entrance to your
church. Or use them to decorate your Pride booth. Or
contact a local mall, library, or
college and
ask for public space to display
the artwork.
6. Hold your own MCC Film Festival
by selecting several gay-themed movies and showing them
during your Pride celebrations. This could be an
excellent fundraiser...
or an opportunity to invite the
community into
your facilities. NOTE: Be sure to
obtain the appropriate copyright licenses which allow
for public screenings of film.
7. Hold an MCC fundraiser
on behalf of your
local Pride Organization.
8. Send a letter
to all mainline newspapers,
TV stations
and radio stations
in your area. Explain the nature and purpose of your
community's Pride Celebrations. Offer to serve as a
resource or spokesperson for their coverage of the
upcoming events.
9. Visit the InterPride (International
Association of Lesbian/Gay Pride Coordinators)
site at
http://www.interpride.org/. You'll find listings of
Pride events around the world, contact information and
ideas. You can also list YOUR event
on this
website.
Copy the following text onto your church
letterhead, replacing all sections in parentheses with
your local information. Double-space the text, and add
your local contact information at the end, to give
reporters a way to follow-up for additional information.
Be creative with your press mailing list. Send your news
release to all of the local religion editors at your
mainline newspapers... to the public service directors
at your local radio stations... and to the editors of
all gay newspapers and magazines that serve your area.
Be sure your press release arrives with plenty of time
before the news deadline -- you may need to call to find
actual deadline dates. Feel free to edit or add to this
sample news release as appropriate to your ministry
setting.
Title: (Church Name) MCC To Present Annual Justice Award
(Your Town) -- (Church Name) Metropolitan Community
Church (MCC), which meets at (Street Location), will
present its annual Social Justice Award to (Name of
Recipient) during Pride Services on (Date) beginning at
(Time).
According to (Name of Senior Pastor), the MCC Social
Justice Award is presented each year to an individual or
organization which has helped to build bridges of
understanding and tolerance in the (Name of City or
Town) area.
This year's award will be presented to (Name of
Recipient) for their (describe the nature of their work
or service.)
(Church Name) MCC is a member congregation of the
Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches
(UFMCC), a Christian denomination with a positive,
affirming ministry to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and
transgendered communities. UFMCC provides 300
congregations in 15 countries for its 42,000 members and
adherents.
For additional information on (Church Name) MCC, contact
the church office at (Area Code/Phone Number) or by
e-mail at (Church E-Mail Address). (OPTIONAL:
Information on the church's services and program may
also be found on the Internet at (http://www/Your Church
Website Address). (End of Press Release)
Four
Small Group Bible Studies have been developed for use
during
your PRIDETIDE observance...You can view/print/download
them here:
Click here for 4 Small Group Bible studies
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FOR
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION, CONTACT:
James N. Birkitt,
Jr., Director of Communications, MCC
8704 Santa Monica Blvd., 2nd Floor West Hollywood,
CA 90069
Tel. (310) 360-8640 Fax: (310) 360-8680
E-mail:
UFMCCHQ@aol.com